Desensitize. Remember what they told you about facing your fears?
Well the same goes for shyness and social phobia.
you get too shy that you ditch party invitations or avoid public
places, it's not normal anymore. You can't let that fear cripple
your social life. What can you do then?
yourself to these situations a little at a time. For example,
begin by first imagining that you are in a party. Imagine you
are having a great time and meeting new people. Do this gradually
until you feel that that situation is no longer something unfamiliar
go to an actual party with one or two people you're comfortable
with such as a friend or a family member. This party should
not be too overwhelming; make sure you know some people while
making new acquaintances within the group as well.
you feel ready, go ahead and attend a bigger gathering with
more people to meet. Gradually you can feel that outer shell
shedding away. Unleash the party animal in you!
and social phobia may sound harmless but these are mini "issues"
that can ultimately make you miss out on the greater opportunities
in life. Don't let this control you.
about time you overcome shyness and social phobia. Smile
at a complete stranger. Be the first to initiate a conversation.
Exchange greetings. In no time, you will be able to exude the
charms to wow the crowd. Good luck!
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