Romantic Ways to Ask a Girl Out - Persuasion Tips for Non-Romantic Men By Michael LeeNot all men possess the natural appeal of Adonis. In fact, many men are scratching their heads thinking of romantic ways to ask a girl out. While there are people who seem to attract the opposite sex easily, there are those who prefer to stay in the sidelines, wallow in self-pity, and be contented with just watching their romantic prospect from afar because they do not know any romantic ways to ask a girl out. But this can't go on forever and we know it. Eventually, you will have to face your insecurities and fears if you are truly bent on getting the woman of your dreams, or even if you want to meet new people at all. Shyness is safe, but there is never any fun in monotony. You will have to break out of your shell eventually and find out that romantic persuasion is not so difficult after all. So how does a non-romantic convince someone to go out with him? Simple. Don't do it outwardly (or you could end up swallowing your own tongue). Instead, try to make friends with the other person. If introducing yourself is not an option, then seek an opportunity wherein you and your prospect will have to interact. For instance, when it's raining and you see her seeking shelter under a shed, join her and comment on the weather. This might be a lame example, of course, but you get the point.
If you already know each other, then you will only have to ask her out to get somewhere. If you have mustered enough courage but do not want to ask outright, you could send a short note, an email, or an SMS or chat message. Don't say anything like 'Hey do you want to go out on a date with me?' if that's really not your thing. You could start by engaging in small talk about this nice restaurant or this interesting dish you've been raving about for the past weeks. If you're convincing enough, it's likely that the other person will feel intrigued by your topic and invite herself to go with you next time. If this happens, you're lucky you're already off the hook. But if it doesn't, well, you could offer to take her there the next time she has 'nothing else to do'. In short, convincing somebody to consider you for a friend or a romantic partner does not really require mush. Some people are more creative and conduct scavenger hunts with roses, but that's only for the advanced and for those who are pretty sure the other person likes them too. However, if you're still on the 'I
don't know' stage, then it's best to take it slow. Persuasion does
not always mean that you should be in a hurry or coercive. And if
it's a romantic prospect you're looking for, wouldn't you want to
start off on the right foot? May you use these romantic
ways to ask a girl out. Best of luck to you! Resource Box: => All rights reserved. You have permission to reprint as long as resource box is included. <=
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