Cheating Results in Emotional
Changes
Marriage and relationships
should be the continuation of strong, passionate love. Sadly,
despite the best efforts of partners, psychiatrists, and even
parents to patch up differences and quarrels, marriage and
relationships sometimes lead to the end of love. Marriage
and relationships are difficult to maintain, and are fraught
with problems, ranging from how to spend or invest money,
how to raise children, what church to go to, and even whether
the family should have pets. Men enter into a relationship
or marriage expecting a woman to stay as beautiful and easy
to handle. Women enter into a relationship or marriage expecting
a man to change for the better.
These differences are often
what lead to breakups, separations, or divorces. These differences,
along with the fact that men constantly want excitement, and
women need affirmation and praise, all lead to infidelity.
The leading cause of divorce,
and perhaps the biggest problem in most marriages nowadays,
cheating is growing more and more common, and is on the verge
of being accepted behavior. Surveys and polls say that about
forty percent of wives cheat on their husbands, and about
sixty percent of husbands cheat on their wives. Not only do
these numbers seem to discourage marriage in those about to
take their vows, they seem to point to marriage as being a
pointless enterprise, when it was once a sacred union.
Cheating does not happen only
to wicked people; it can ruin even the best relationships.
Cheating, however, can be detected through several telltale
signs that can start by being irritating, before they evolve
into something highly suspicious.
There are several emotional
changes that occur in husbands or wives when they cheat. Why,
in the first place, do people cheat? Due to their hunter instincts,
men always look for the thrill of a chase, and are always
on the lookout for new prey if they miss the old hunts and
winning women. On the other hand, women are raised to be mothers,
and to look for responsible husbands. Ever idealistic, women
think that their husbands can change for the better, only
to find out that the opposite is true. With their expectations
unmet, women will often fly out of the marital nest and try
to find someone to meet those expectations and close the void
they seek to fill.
With man as hunter, it will
be easy to see the emotional signs that point to a cheating
man.
